287th entry:
im sleepy, but im still gg to blog. so many things come across my mind these days, and i cant help but to think, what exactly are friends for?
there are so many type of friends in your-so-called friends' circle. there are those who are really your frens -- they think for ur best, and they treat you with true sincerity and from the bottom of their hearts. they need not to be by ur side everytime, everyday, but u noe, from anywhere and anytime, they're there beside you emotionally, ready to shower you with their love and care. there are the others, who are there when it is necessary -- they are ppl who appear in ur social circle once in a blue moon. and there are those who claimed that they are your frens -- they hang out with you, play with you, talk to you, this and that; but you never noe if they really care. worst still, some times they really show it/ make it obvious that they don care.
what type of frens do you really need and do you really have? dintinguish those you really one from your so-called-friends and treat them better. those, who you need not have, leave them. do not step into their paths to prevent yourself from getting hurt. this is called self-protection. who wants to be hurt, emotionally, by their so-called-friends? those who claimed that they are your frens but never ever show any care or concern to you, no point doing the same back to them. they don think you need any from them, and so should you do the same to them. who are they to decide who deserves the care and concern, all those are their so-called-friends? think before you do/ tell anything to your so-called friends. do you want to be treated in the same way?
all humans are the same. please, do not think that your friends live for you. this is not the case.
YOU, instead, live for your friends.
STOP treating your friends like dirt, be it you like their characters/behaviour/this or that or not. this isnt
FAIR to your so-called-friends if they respected you the way
TOTALLY different from the way you treated them.
i always believe that ppl should treat each other they way they feel/like to be treated. why are there groups of ppl that are so unreasonable and always think that they are superior than the others? this type of attitude irks me. i really hate this type of hypocrites. please do not always assume that what you like is the same as what others want. please do not always think that otehrs can do waht you can do. life is unfair. ppl may not have the same fate and shit like you. stop imposing your irritating, selfish thoughts on others,
SELF-CENTRED CREATURES. disgusted.-